In our journey through life, we all strive to be the best version of ourselves, but with so many factors limiting our progress and defining our sense of self, this can prove challenging. Life can throw curveballs, and time can slip by quickly, leaving us feeling directionless and disconnected from our goals. But all hope is not lost. You can become the person you’ve always wanted to be by making a few minor changes. In this blog post, we will take you through some vital steps that will help you embrace your true self, overcome obstacles, and become the best you can be.

11 Steps to Become the Best Version of Yourself

How often do we hear someone say, “I want to become the best version of myself”? It sounds like a great aspiration, but what does it mean, exactly? To become the best version of yourself is to recognize your strengths, weaknesses, and values, then strive to improve upon all of these aspects of your being. It doesn’t mean being perfect or adhering to anyone else’s standards. Instead, it means becoming more self-aware, setting goals, and taking intentional action to become the person you want to be. This journey can lead to a more fulfilled and purposeful life, where you actively make choices instead of living on autopilot. Becoming the best version of yourself is a lifelong pursuit, but every step is worth celebrating. So, without further ado, here are 11 important tips to help guide you on your path to self-improvement. 

Tips to become the best version of yourself

Just Show Up

Becoming your best self is a journey that begins with a decision to show up in everything you do. While this may sound simple, it requires a great deal of personal discipline, motivation, and proper planning.

Showing up requires mental strength, determination, and the ability to be resilient, especially when the going gets tough. You might have to take risks and push yourself beyond your limits, but that’s the only way to ensure growth. The benefits of showing up go beyond personal development. It positively impacts your relationships, your career, and every aspect of your life. When you show up, you demonstrate your willingness to take responsibility and follow through with your commitments. In essence, showing up is the foundation for success in all areas of your life.

Becoming Her

When I started showing up as the woman I wanted to be, the world began responding to me; showing me all the different ways I needed to keep moving, and healing, and growing, and stretching beyond myself, beyond anything I have ever reached before.
When I started showing up as the woman I wanted to be, the world led me to a place where I could finally say: “I am her.” ― April Green, Reaching the Sun

Becoming Her

Set Realistic Goals

 To reach your potential, it’s important to set goals that are practical, achievable, and tailored to your unique strengths and weaknesses. These goals will help establish a clear direction for your personal growth, and you’ll be more likely to stay motivated as you work towards achieving them. On the other hand, setting unrealistic expectations can lead to frustration and disappointment, which may hold you back from striving for self-improvement. So take the time to reflect on your aspirations, map out a plan, and focus on setting achievable goals that will help you reach your highest potential.

Take Responsibility

Take full responsibility for the decisions you make, the actions you take, and the person you become. Your life is entirely yours, so it’s essential to accept that any changes you make should come from within. Avoid making excuses, blaming others for the outcome of your life or playing the victim. Remember, you are in control of your life, and with great power comes great responsibility.

Love Yourself

Above all else, love yourself. Accept your flaws, your scars, and your past mistakes. Appreciate yourself for who you are right now; a magnificent work in progress. Love yourself enough to invest in your growth and give yourself everything you need to be the best possible version of yourself.

Become your best friend; it is well worth it. It takes a lot of work and it can be painful because it requires honesty and discipline. It means you have to accept who you are, see all your faults and weaknesses. Having done that, you can correct, improve, and little by little discover the things you do like about yourself and start to design your life. There is no love unless there is truth and there is nothing truer than discovering and accepting who you really are. By being critical, you will find things you dislike as well as things you like, and the whole package is who you are. The whole package is what you must embrace and the whole package is what you have control of. It is you! Everything you think, do, like, becomes the person you are and the whole thing weaves into a life, your life. ― Diane von Furstenberg


Prioritizing your goals and aspirations is vital to making tangible progress in transforming yourself into the person you want to be. Identify your core values, and identify the areas in your life that reflect how you want to be living. Allocate your time, energy, and resources to what matters most to you. This way, you’ll know where your focus is and won’t be swayed by distractions.

Take Chances

Taking chances is crucial to personal growth, and it can lead to unexpected discoveries about yourself that you may otherwise have missed. When you take risks, even if they don’t always pay off, you learn more about yourself and your capabilities. This knowledge will help you shape your goals and give you the tools and confidence to achieve them.

Teach Your Brain

Your mind is a powerful tool, and it’s essential to train it accordingly. Practice positive affirmations, visualization, and meditation. Challenge and improve your intellectual capacity by reading, learning about different topics, and trying new things. This way, you’ll also manage stress better and develop a more positive outlook on life.

Be Honest With Yourself

Being honest with yourself is a critical part of becoming your best self. It’s easy to get caught up in the expectations and values of others, but always ask yourself, “What version of myself do I want to be?”. Do not feel the need to conform to anyone else’s ideas or standards; focus on who you want to be as an individual.

Have Balance

Having balance in your life means recognizing when certain aspects of your life are taking over and causing an imbalance. Prioritizing work or a single aspect of your life can cause stress, fatigue, and eventually lead to burnout. Make sure you’re spending time with the people who are important to you, doing things you enjoy, and taking care of your physical and emotional well-being.

Be Patient And Trust The Process

Changing yourself into the person you want to be takes time, effort, and consistency. It’s important to be patient and understand that personal growth isn’t a one-day or one-week fix. Trust the process, and have faith in your work to see the results you seek.

Learn Every Day

One way to become the best version of yourself is to commit to a lifetime of learning. Take the time to learn new things or improve skills you already have. Read books, watch documentaries, attend lectures and seminars, or even take courses. Learning is a life-long practice, and it’s one way to ensure your personal development never stagnates.

Final Thoughts

Becoming your best self is an ongoing and rewarding journey. By incorporating these tips, you’ll be on your way to being an improved version of yourself. Be patient, stay motivated, and never stop learning. Remember that your life is entirely yours, so take control of it, prioritize what matters most to you, and become the person you’ve always wanted to be – HER.

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Hermione M.

My name is Hermione. I am the founder of WomenH and I write about women's health, wellness, mental health, and personal growth. I created this platform to inspire women to take care of themselves mentally, physically, and emotionally to become their best selves. Thank you for stopping by.

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